The champagne bottle is empty and the confetti is long gone. As I settle into the start of 2015, I know it will be an exciting year ahead! Rather than resolutions, I find the new year a good time to reflect on the past and plan for the future. 2014 really did fly by. And for the most part, it was a good year….much better than 2013!
Peyton has truly come so far. I hear it all the time from friends, family, even many of you who know Peyton through my writing and pictures. A year ago, Peyton was attached to oxygen and I was still home on a leave of absence from my career. It’s hard to even imagine P so tiny and fragile because looking at her today, she is a completely different child. She’s about 20lbs and standing on her own…I know it’s only a matter of time until she takes her first step. And I know she wouldn’t be doing this well without the help of her amazing doctors, therapists and our nanny, Leda. I can leave for work knowing that Peyton is constantly working on developmental skills and learning new things everyday, not to mention getting plenty of love and admiration!
Sure I worry. I worry every single day. There are nights when I’m lying in bed wondering what Peyton’s future will be like. Will she be able to keep up with other kids in school? Will she always need extra help and therapy? Will she face a constant uphill battle, like she has for so much of her life? But I’m often reminded by friends, these are fears that parents of healthy children also face. It’s part of being a parent. You are always going to want the best for your child. So this year, my goal is to worry less. I know I have every right to have “freak out” moments and to worry due to everything my family has been through, but so many of my worries are out of my hands. God has a plan for Peyton and I’m sure it involves some big things in life. There’s a reason my 22 weeker survived and is here with us today. So I plan on trying to relax this year (easier said than done!) and let life run its course.
I have an amazing family, as you all have seen through this blog. Mr. Skry really is Prince Charming; he puts Peyton and I on a pedestal and I’d say he’s easy on the eyes (wink wink)! As so many of you can relate, parenting can be exhausting. So this year, I plan on taking time to slow down and breathe and enjoy my family. Whether it’s a date night, a weekend away, or even a simple family activity, I want those memories to stick around. I know what it’s like to have something one day and it disappear in the blink of an eye. I sometimes watch videos of Parker and Peyton, just so I can see Parker yawn or remember what it was like to hold my son. It’s those memories that I cling onto. I want to make more of an effort to create new memories with Peyton (and take more videos!). Life goes by too fast, you never know what tomorrow will bring.
And finally, I hope big things will come from this blog. I am blown away by your support and the number of people who still care about my family, even 18 months after the triplets were born. In 2014, Perfectly Peyton had more than 280,000 views from people around the world…from more than 100 countries! I write because it’s therapeutic. It helps me work through my grief, my frustrations and my sheer excitement over my children. Never did I expect to find such a unique (and enormous!) audience along the way. Two years ago, I went public with my struggles with infertility and I’m so proud to still be a voice for it years later. I read every comment, every email and every Facebook message. While I am proud to say that I’m helping others through my story, so many readers have helped me by sharing their own story. I love hearing from you and I hope to hear even more in 2015. What direction would you like this blog to go in? From getting to know my family, to sharing intimate and emotional stories of the triplets, to marking every major milestone through Peyton’s goofy faces…what is it you would like to see on this blog? Please send me ideas and questions you may have. Many times, a simple comment or story from you will spark a blog post! A coworker once asked me how long I plan to keep on blogging? He said, “Eventually you’re going to be out of things to say.” I’m sure that day will come, but not anytime soon. As long as you’re entertained, I’m thrilled to share my life with you. So thanks for coming along for the ride…I know 2015 is going to be a fantastic year!
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Yes Peyton, NO jumping on he chair…..She is so cute and just makes me smile on such a cold day, don’t stop posting those pictures. You will have to tell her the story of 5 little monkeys jumping on the bed but change it to Peyton jumping on the chair.
I love your blogs! And love following Peyton. She looks like she is doing just fine for what she has gone through. From being the grandmother of a two pound preemie who is now 11, I know that one year, you will begin to see less of the preemie issues and more of the little girl she is destined to be. As long as you have children, you never run out of things to say. Some of the words that come out of their mouths are priceless. Keep us posted. Blessings for this new year.
Happy New Year Skry Family! I look forward to seeing what’s in store for you this year and how much Miss P grows (but hey, little lady, don’t do it too fast!) 😉
Good Morning Ms. Peyton! It has been such a pleasure watching you grow and mature over the last 18 months! I LOVE that your mommy ( and daddy, too ) takes the time to let us be apart of your lives! I hope that they will continue to share your pictures, videos and stories for a VERY long time! May God continue to Bless you, Peyton! And your mommy and daddy too! Looking forward to seeing that first step in the very near future! Lots of love, smiles and prayers still flowing your way!
I love reading all of your posts,Peyton is doing great . Prayers are sent to this amazing child who has touched so many people. God bless all of you and HI Peyton
Happy New year!!I look forward to reading your new post and seeing new pictures.
HUGS
jane
A little jumping is just fine Miss P! It’s good for the soul!! Stacy I love the blog and the pics and hearing all about the adventures of Miss P.
After moving from Decatur, IL to Bellingham, WA it has been a mission of mine to follow you and see you through your pregnancy. It was such a shock to see your posts about losing two of your angels. I always wait to see a post on FB and then read you post about your family. Please continue to post as long as you feel comfortable doing so. One day you might just quit and that is fine but know so many people truly care for you. You are a very positive woman to watch on tv (no longer for me) and always look extremely nice. Peyton is lucky to have such caring parents. Have a very prosperous New Year and take time for yourself and husband. Hugs, Eliz
Hi, Stacey! I would say, just keep on blogging like you have! Keep sharing the pictures Nanny Leda takes, plus yours! Tell us when she finally takes that first step .. says that first word or two .. makes funny faces .. anything you share will keep us happy! You are an inspiration to many women who have had fertility problems (myself included) and this story of Peyton, Parker and Abby will continue to give hope to families. And, of course, you know – <3 <3 <3 Always!
I have always believed Peyton survived for a purpose. She is an amazing girl with amazing parents. I look forward to seeing what she will accomplish in the next year. I wish you the best of health, and joy in the New Year.
Not all moms are as astute as you to know to get developmental toys etc maybe you should share some insights on that and how to make play therapy etcd
Great idea Marilyn, thanks!
I personally hope you never run out of things to say, but if you do, that’s ok. I will read your posts as long as they’re available & enjoy every word !! I wish only the best for you & your family in 2015.
I love to read your Blogs. And a grandmother to 7 believe me you will never run out of things to say. LOL… Especially with little dear sweet Peyton. I am sure I can speak for most of us as to we love and look forward to reading about Peyton. She gives us a look into a miracle, hope and love. Thanks for sharing her with us all.
thanks for your posts. The pics are just so cute of her. She has come so far. She is a doll. Really enjoy your posts and you taking time to share. Thanks and look forward to next one. Only the best for all of you in 2015.
I don’t think you will ever run out of things to post so keep up the good work. Once Peyton finds out what those legs are for you will have you hands full. Thanks for your post and Peyton is a lil doll.
Love seeing and hearing about Peyton and your family (including Riley). Prayers for all of you in this New Year.
I want to see my Monday smiles from Peyton. I just love hearing about her progress and hearing you tell it is precious. I really think if there is something new your followers want to hear they will let you know. As long as you keep telling it I know for sure I will be looking forward to it!
such a amazing little girl she is so adorable as usual just like her mother love the blogs and updates love reading them and keeping up with you all all so amazing and great family
Love to see Peyton’s smiles on Monday & how she’s grown. Keep up your blogs. You could write a book starting back when you got pregnant. I’m sure people would read it. Maybe when she starts school or few yrs. after.
I love reading your blogs about Peyton! She is adorable and I know that you and your husband are very good parents. The pictures are so cute. Keep them coming. God Bless
1. I’m with you on 2015 goals of enjoyment and presence. 2. I’ve had my blog since 2009 and haven’t run out of things to say yet. And possibly the reason we are friends is because we value transparency and honesty. Rawness is a gift we have been forced to embrace…. In other words, I put my $ on that you never stop talking! 🙂 3. Can’t wait to see where you take the blog. I’ll be cheering and following no matter what direction!
Stacey, you’re not entertainment for all of us. You’ve become an extension of our families and we care about all of you and what is going on in your lives!!! I know I look forward to seeing Peyton’s pictures and reading what you have to say. Parker and Abby are a way of being a testimony to our grandkids and others of how God cares for each of us and knows what is best for us. Just to have the assurance that they are well, safe and happy is just a pure joy. I found an ornament for a friend of mine that had to say goodbye to her precious daughter when Madyson was born at 22 weeks. On it it said, “I’d rather hold you in my arms but I’ll always hold you in my heart.” To know that Jesus holds them in His arms is such a comfort to me as He holds my five grandchildren. One day, I’ll get to see them and know them and they can tell me what they’ve been up to. (Knowing how my other grandkids are, I’m sure they’ve “tested” the angels on patience!! LOL) I pray that God continues to give you a peace about Abby and Parker and the time you had with them will bring a smile on your face and not be filled with so much sadness. God loves you and so do all of us!!!
Love reading bout all your experiences and how Peyton is doing! She’s so sweet!!
I would guess that your “co-worker” who said you’d eventually run out of things to blog about must not have children of his own. As a Mom of three (ages 27, 24 and 16) they were the source of stories for many, many years (and sometimes still are). Please keep showing Peyton’s milestones, and everyday developments and sharing the cute stories. Your family brings happiness to many – Happy 2015!
Hi Peyton, Stacey and Ryan and Riley!!! Happy New Year!! Your fears are normal for a parent. I still worry and my son is 21. I enjoy your Monday Morning Cuteness and your blog. I look forward to them each week. Do you plan on trying to have more children? Thanks again for sharing your life with all of us. God Bless your family.
Just continue sharing and showing us pictures of Peyton she is such and inspiration to others and what a joy to see the changes in her. She so sweet and Iam so glad to be a small part of her wonderful life God Bless you all in 2015
Stacey, Could you tell us who made your nursery shadow boxes? I lost my micro-preemie granddaughter in Dec. 2014 (her twin brother is doing great) and think a shadow box is a great idea!
I love to see how much miss P is growing. And the little faces she makes she’s so beautiful . Please dont quit bloging i look so foward to them. your. such. An inspiration to so many ypur family has become. like. Part of mine .