The past few weeks have been a blur. If you saw me on television, I did my best to be engaged and happy. But truth be told, I was going through the motions, just trying to make it through each day. The anniversaries of Parker and Abby’s deaths are difficult, still fresh in my mind two years later. But thanks to your messages and random acts of kindness, Mr. Skry and I smiled through our tears. Don’t worry, I allow myself to be sad. I don’t always have the rosy outlook on life, and as we celebrated our children this past weekend, I cried many tears of sadness. But, I don’t like to dwell. I look back to two years ago and know that everything that happened was out of our hands. We have no regrets.
Parker’s Angelversary reminded me of how much support we have and I want to share a note of gratitude. From the phone calls and text messages, to the comments on Facebook and this blog….we were surrounded by SO much support! Thanks to those of you who took part in a random act of kindness. I could go on and on about how much it means to my family. From donating crayons to a local restaurant, to buying a meal for a friend or stranger in need, to giving back to the hospitals where your child was born, to donating your baby clothes and gear to at-risk women….the list goes on for pages. I’ve read each and every note and I’m so humbled by your kindness. From the bottom of our hearts, we thank you. We saw a glimpse of how much good can happen in this world and we’re honored that you thought of our children while doing good deeds. It’s a nice reminder that a little kindness can go a long way.
As for us, we had a quiet day filled with reminiscing. Ryan and I talked a lot about our triplets and we cried as we looked through pictures and watched videos. We lit memorial candles for Parker and Abby and we did our own random acts of kindness. And just like last year, we returned to the Nicu where our children spent so much time. We visited with Peyton’s nurses and doctors and smiled as everyone commented on how well Peyton is doing. Thanks to our friends, family and even some viewers, we donated close to 200 children’s books for Nicu families to take home. Inside each book has a simple label that says, “In memory of Parker & Abby”. It’s a tradition we began last year and we plan to continue. My hope is that a year from now, I’ll have created a non-profit organization with a mission of donating children’s books to hospitals. It’s just in the brainstorming phase, so please get in touch with me if you have experience with non-profit start ups. It’s quite the lengthy process!
We also made a memorial/celebration poster for the Skrysak Triplets that will be placed in the hospital. There’s a hallway in the Nicu, lined with memories of other Nicu babies. I decided to keep with their nursery theme, since we still use the colors today.
Our day ended perfectly: watching Peyton frolic in the yard, while Ryan and I enjoyed a glass of wine, giving cheers to all three of our children. As we went inside for dinner, I happened to look up at the clock and I smiled. It read 6:12, Parker’s time of death. It was a simple sign from above. Right then, I knew he was looking down on us. And just like we did two years ago, the night Parker passed away, we slept like babies. We were at peace, knowing our son is at peace in Heaven.
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HI!Love reading the posts.sending hugs from Il
jane
I would love, love, love to help you with the organization! Let me know!
Thank you Jocelyn! I’ll take you up on that!
Stacy,
I have no experience with start up procedures but would love to help with the organization when you get it up and running or help any way I can.
You are such an inspiration for others who have lost children. You show the good and joy that you can share with others threww this trying time
. What wonderful memories you have in your hearts. Even though they are said memories you see joy as will, the picture of the rainbow I am reading another Chicken Soup for the soul book and just read a story yesterday about rainbows. God bless you so much for letting all of us share your story and teacher to be kind to others and help out someone. Prayers as you prepare to do start the mission work of giving books to hospitals.
What a beautiful tribute. Tears to my eyes as I read the blog. Blessings and hugs.
they always be in your hearts never forgotten love of your life’s and your children no matter what always have memories no one can ever take that away the little angels our looking down on you all and smiling it’s always ok to cry and be sad
Beautiful tribute! I am sure they are looking down and SO proud of thier mommy and daddy! Bless all 3 of you and keep the memories close and dear to you!
I had tears reading your tribute to Parker and Abby. Looking at the clock and seeing Parkers time of death is indeed a sign that he is in heaven and is with you in spirit. Jane
You are such an inspiration. Prayers continue for you and your family.
Your post made me cry. Prayers to all of you. I too know my baby Great granddaughter is safe in the arms of Jesus.
Some how, I missed this post. Now, I’m crying 🙂 What a beautiful, perfect post to recap your emotional day. Sending love to you.